It's the imperfections that make us beautiful ([info]loveshannon) wrote in [info]ljsecret,
2011-02-02 16:50:00

Secrets #1180

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    [info]loveshannon

    February 3 2011, 00:50:50 UTC 1 year ago

    Duplicates/Questions

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    February 3 2011, 00:50:56 UTC 1 year ago

    General Comments

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    [info]pantsu

    February 3 2011, 03:28:27 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: General Comments

    Can we comment on unposted secrets? Because the first one is driving me crazy.
    Do you know if the people you're sleeping with are clean? Do you know who they've slept with previously? If you can't answer these then you're not being safe enough. One night stands are stigmatised for a reason. I'm not saying sex = love because obviously that is not the case, but you're better off finding a fuckbuddy you know well, rather than sleeping around with people you've known for all of an hour and a half.

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    [info]ljsmod

    February 3 2011, 02:02:09 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]rainedupon_

    February 3 2011, 08:13:35 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 1

    My partner has shown me that being better than the day before is always worth it. Right now, you think you can't 'grow out of it', maybe a bad habit or attitude, whatever. I promise you, so long as you keep trying to grow, you'll get there.

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    February 3 2011, 02:02:21 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]rainedupon_

    February 3 2011, 08:14:34 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 2

    For some people, an honest friendship is more love than anyone may have given them before in their lives. Be a good friend; it's an amazing kind of love all on its own.

    [info]ljsmod

    February 3 2011, 02:02:34 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]lesbido

    February 3 2011, 03:08:03 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 3

    I'd try therapy. Just a counselor. Someone to help you reevaluate your opinions about prescription drugs.

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    February 3 2011, 02:03:14 UTC 1 year ago

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    Anonymous

    February 3 2011, 03:16:38 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 4

    I've always gotten along with boys/men better than I have girls/women and I have the same problem. And the same thoughts. It'll be hard, but you'll make it.

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    February 3 2011, 02:03:41 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]adriana_amaya

    February 3 2011, 02:52:28 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 5

    CONGRATULATIONS!!! You should be sosososo proud of your achievement!

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    February 3 2011, 02:12:00 UTC 1 year ago

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    Anonymous

    February 3 2011, 21:53:30 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 6

    I'm so afraid that my kids will say this about me one day. But, I can't stop drinking and I can only control my mental illness so much.

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    February 3 2011, 02:12:29 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]shonokin

    February 3 2011, 03:53:54 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 7

    Well, of course she'd be pissed. You've betrayed her trust in you for your own personal gain.

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    February 3 2011, 02:13:10 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]ecoerrante

    February 3 2011, 04:37:57 UTC 1 year ago

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    I know how you feel OP - I run when I need to think/destress, and when I wasn't able to due to an injury it felt like I was losing my mind. -hugs-

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    February 3 2011, 02:13:35 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]lady_tigerlily

    February 3 2011, 04:56:29 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 9

    This is beautiful.

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    February 3 2011, 02:13:57 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]urwen_sakurafu

    February 3 2011, 07:57:06 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 10

    Why?

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    February 3 2011, 02:14:20 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]shonokin

    February 3 2011, 04:25:10 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 11

    Well, some people have problems and some people don't with drugs, and it also depends on what drugs they are taking. Some drugs are pretty much the equivalent of going out for a few drinks on a Friday night. Others are horribly addictive and ruin lives.

    Assuming it is a relatively small problem, if it's just you talking it may not be a good idea to flat out tell them they have a drug problem - they'll just get defensive and stop listening to you. You'd probably do best expressing concern over the *consequences* of the drug problem in their life rather bringing up the drugs themselves. Get them to be the one to admit the drugs are behind the problems in their life and they will be more apt to change.

    If their life seems to be taking a stronger turn for the worse, well, then it's time to seek professional help.

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    February 3 2011, 02:14:33 UTC 1 year ago

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    Anonymous

    February 4 2011, 09:43:44 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 12

    This doesn't just sound like "boring" if you want to just lay down and sleep for a week. You could be under-stimulated, or, more seriously, you could be depressed and not even aware of it. Try finding something that interests you, and if you seriously can't, you should talk to someone about it.

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    February 3 2011, 02:14:47 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]jana_hahn

    February 3 2011, 04:47:04 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 13

    Deep down, that's my fear too. But I know if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. I work hard in this relationship.

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    February 3 2011, 02:15:13 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]lesbido

    February 3 2011, 03:09:05 UTC 1 year ago

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    That's ridiculous.

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    February 3 2011, 02:15:31 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]elevator_child

    February 3 2011, 05:09:39 UTC 1 year ago

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    Congratulations! Wear that uniform with pride, man!

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    February 3 2011, 03:32:25 UTC 1 year ago

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    Certainly understandable.

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    February 3 2011, 02:16:09 UTC 1 year ago

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    [info]noiseresponse

    February 9 2011, 01:27:48 UTC 1 year ago

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    Congratulations!

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    February 3 2011, 02:16:33 UTC 1 year ago

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    Anonymous

    February 3 2011, 03:19:25 UTC 1 year ago

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    I feel the same way.

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    [info]lady_tigerlily

    February 3 2011, 04:56:55 UTC 1 year ago

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    Been there before. As long as you keep yourself in check, I suppose.

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    Anonymous

    February 3 2011, 06:06:25 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 20

    I've been in a situation like this before. The last thing I want to do is worry my dad. I'm terrified he'll take my problems on as his own and worry himself to death.

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    Anonymous

    February 3 2011, 03:34:10 UTC 1 year ago

    Re: 21

    i dated a lesbian who was just like you. she was amazing and wonderful and we managed to have a happy and healthy sex life both before and after the surgery. you just have to find someone who sees and loves you for the woman you are, someone you can be comfortable with despite your dysphoria--and i promise, there are women like that. don't give up, and don't let anyone make you lie to yourself. (and if you haven't already, why not look up a gender clinic in your area and start the process of making your body fit your mind?)
    good luck, sweetie.

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    [info]berlove

    February 3 2011, 04:38:30 UTC 1 year ago

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    love it.

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    [info]lesbido

    February 3 2011, 03:09:25 UTC 1 year ago

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    I don't know what this secret means.

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